Life Balance & Career Coach
I support highly capable midlife women who feel overwhelmed, unsure who they are now, what they want or how to move forward

I support highly capable midlife women who feel overwhelmed, unsure who they are now, what they want or how to move forward


You’ve built a solid career.
Good salary. Management role. Respected. Reliable.
On paper, it works.
But it doesn’t fit.
It’s like being a round peg in a square hole. You’re good at it. Maybe even great. But it doesn’t light you up anymore.
You’re not sure you want to climb higher. And you’re not sure you can stay where you are for another 15 years.
The pension is good. The income matters. Your family rely on it. And you don’t even know what you’d do instead.
So you keep going.
Filling the extra time now the kids are older with more work. More projects. More responsibility.
Maybe if you just complete the next thing, it will feel better again.
But deep down, you know it won’t.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not ungrateful. And you’re not stuck because you’re incapable.
You’re stuck because you don't get proper space to think about what you really want and support to work out how to reconnect to what matters to you now.
You're at a career (and maybe life) crossroads.
As a coach I can listen, question, reflect back and gently challenge you...to get the answers you want and need to move forward.
I know what it’s like to hold everything together for everyone else but feel like you’ve lost yourself.
Loneliness despite being surrounded by people.
Shame, when others have it so much worse and you have everything you ever wanted, right?
Sometimes you know work or life needs to look different, but not what that means or how to make it happen.
You want answers, not more ideas.
Together we can peel back the layers, connect to what matters to you now, rebuild confidence again and move forward.
→ You’ve lost sight of who you are beyond the roles and responsibilities of mum, career woman, wife, friend, 'doer of things'.
→ You feel stuck, drifting, and unsure what’s next. And if you don't know how can you explain it to anyone else. So you stay quiet.
→ You carry guilt any time you even think about prioritising yourself, because there is just too much else to do and people need you in these roles and you don't want to cause any upset, financial insecurity or rock the boat. It's exhausting.
→ You’ve looked into solutions, listened to podcasts, read books, watched webinars, googled for hours (often at 3am!) but now instead of feeling clearer you feel more confused, overwhelmed by the number of ideas and options and have no idea how to choose a way forward, let alone make that happen.
→ You’re exhausted from keeping it all together for everyone else, but not sure if change is even possible. So you continue to stay quite. You carry on, you'll be ok, right?
→ You feel clear on what matters to you, your vision for the future and your desires.
→ You understand who you are at this point in life, and even more importantly you like her, trust her and feel confident in her choices.
→ You know you can take action, you know where you are heading and have a plan for the future that you believe in and will make happen.
→ You can say no without guilt, set boundaries, and protect your energy - because you have a grounded sense of what is important to you and what you need to do to make that happen.
→ You’re confident, balanced, and able to prioritise yourself, meaningful work and selfcare alongside the needs of your family.
→ You’re excited for your next chapter, not just the end point but the journey to get there as you now know where you are heading and have the tools to deal with any bumps in the road.

Caroline came to coaching feeling overwhelmed about her next steps. She knew she wanted to change something about work, but was torn between progressing up the career ladder further, looking for a new role, setting up her own business, or early retirement.
She’d been thinking and researching, trying to work it out herself, but everything started to feel too big and too foggy. As she listened to podcasts and googled her options she found herself adding to her list of ideas without getting any clearer on which she wanted to do. She was also conscious of her financial position, giving up a good salary could impact the whole family, but that was balanced against working long hours and wanting to have more time to support her daughter and her mother who lived nearby.
Caroline joined my 3-month coaching programme and we worked together in individual coaching sessions, giving her space to talk, to think, with questions to guide and gently challenge her. We used tasks between sessions to move things forward and get clear, to untangle her thinking, explore her values, narrow down her options and consider any fears that could be clouding her decision.
Caroline joined feeling like whilst early retirement was technically an option it wasn't right for her, she'd be bored and it was too final.
By the end Caroline realised it was exactly what she needed, for now, in this stage, but that it was also not the end, that if in time she wanted to re-enter employment or set up a business she could. Taking this pressure off the decision and connecting each option to her strongest values at this point helped her see clearly what she wanted and why.
After our 3-month journey she said:
“The mix of tools, reflection and discussion felt like time well spent, with real takeaways that still feel relevant months later.”
Make a booking with me today.
Book an initial free 30-minute coaching discovery call. This will allow us to see how we can work together.
You can also book single personal coaching sessions on my booking page below.
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Always happy to explore bespoke coaching options or discuss how I can support you as a life coach.

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